What Is a Wife's Ill-Conduct (Nushuz), and Must the Husband Still Support Her?
ما معنى نشوز المرأة، وهل يجب على الزوج الإنفاق عليها؟
What is the meaning of a woman's ill conduct, and is the husband obliged to support her in that case?
In Islamic law, a woman's ill conduct (Nushuz) refers to her deliberate rebellion and unwarranted refusal to fulfill her foundational marital obligations. When a wife is in this specific state of contempt, the four schools of law agree that the husband is temporarily relieved of his obligation to provide her with financial support.
The marital contract in Islam is based on mutual rights and equitable responsibilities. Financial maintenance is inherently tied to the mutual cooperation and fulfillment of these marital duties.
Does arguing with a husband count as ill conduct?
No. Disagreements, differing opinions, and regular marital arguments do not constitute ill conduct (Nushuz). True ill conduct refers to severe rebellion, such as abandoning the marital home without a valid reason.
Does the husband permanently lose the obligation to support her?
No. The suspension of financial support is only temporary. The very moment the wife stops her ill conduct and returns to fulfilling her marital obligations, her absolute right to financial maintenance is restored.
Can a wife claim financial support if she leaves the house due to abuse?
Yes. If a wife leaves the marital home to protect herself from physical or severe emotional abuse, she is not considered rebellious (Nashiz). In such cases of justifiable and necessary absence, her right to financial support remains fully intact.
Defining Ill Conduct and its Consequence
1. The Meaning of Ill Conduct
Ill conduct means that a woman is in contempt so that she does not obey her husband in matters fundamental to the marriage.
2. The Ruling on Financial Support
In this case, the jurists have stated that her husband is no longer obligated to support her financially throughout the duration of her ill conduct.
Scholarly Insight: In Islamic Jurisprudence (Fiqh), financial maintenance (Nafaqah) is a strict right granted to the wife in exchange for her presence and cooperation in the marital home. "Nushuz" is not a simple argument, a bad mood, or a difference of opinion. It refers to a severe, deliberate abandonment of her marital duties, such as leaving the marital home without a valid Islamic reason and refusing to return. The suspension of financial support is a legal measure intended to correct the imbalance in marital duties. If she ceases her rebellion and returns to cooperation, her full right to financial support is immediately and fully reinstated.
ما معنى نشوز المرأة، وهل يجب على الزوج الإنفاق عليها؟
في الشريعة الإسلامية، يشير نشوز المرأة إلى تمردها المتعمد ورفضها غير المبرر لأداء التزاماتها الزوجية الأساسية. عندما تكون الزوجة في حالة النشوز هذه، يتفق فقهاء المذاهب الأربعة على أن الزوج يعفى مؤقتا من التزامه بتقديم الدعم المالي لها.
يقوم عقد الزواج في الإسلام على الحقوق المتبادلة والمسؤوليات المنصفة. وترتبط النفقة المالية ارتباطا وثيقا بالتعاون المتبادل والوفاء بهذه الواجبات الزوجية.
تعريف النشوز وحكمه
1. معنى النشوز
النشوز معناه: هو أن تنفر المرأة بحيث لا تطيع زوجها في الأمور الأساسية للزواج.
2. حكم النفقة
وفي هذه الحالة نص الفقهاء على أن نفقتها تسقط من على الزوج طيلة مدة نشوزها.
1. The Juridical Definition of Nushuz | مفهوم النشوز وضوابطه الفقهية الدقيقة
Linguistically, Nushuz signifies elevation and haughtiness. In Islamic jurisprudence, it denotes a wife's unwarranted, deliberate violation of core marital duties: refusing marital relations without physical illness, deserting the home, or openly humiliating the husband. Ordinary differences of opinion or mild fatigue do NOT constitute Nushuz.
وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ (سورة النساء: 34)
النشوز في اللغة مأخوذ من "النشز" وهو المكان المرتفع؛ وفي اصطلاح الفقهاء: هو خروج الزوجة عن طاعة زوجها بالمعروف واستعلاؤها عليه بغير حق شرعي؛ كالامتناع العمدي عن الفراش، أو مغادرة المنزل عصيانا دون رضاه، ولا يعد الخلاف العادي أو الإرهاق أو مناقشة الأمور نشوزا قطعا.
2. Financial Maintenance (Nafaqah) Tied to Marital Availability | ارتباط النفقة بالتمكين والاستقرار الأسري
In Islamic law, a husband's exclusive obligation to provide food, housing, and clothing (Nafaqah) is counterbalanced by the wife's commitment to the marital home. When a wife actively deserts the marriage and cuts off marital life without legal cause, her legal entitlement to maintenance is temporarily suspended.
لِيُنفِقْ ذُو سَعَةٍ مِّن سَعَتِهِ ۖ وَمَن قُدِرَ عَلَيْهِ رِزْقُهُ فَلْيُنفِقْ مِمَّا آتَاهُ اللَّـهُ (سورة الطلاق: 7)
قرر فقهاء المذاهب الأربعة أن وجوب نفقة الزوجة وسكناها معقود بالتمكين التام والاستقرار في بيت الزوجية؛ فإذا أعلنت الزوجة نشوزها الصريح وهجرت بيت الزوجية دون ضرر معتبر، سقطت نفقتها عن تلك الفترة؛ لأن الحقوق تقابلها الواجبات في ميزان الشريعة.
3. Exceptions: Legitimate Reasons for Refusal | الأعذار الشرعية المبيحة للامتناع دون نشوز
A woman is never deemed Nashiz if her refusal is rooted in legitimate grounds: if the husband fails to provide her prompt dower, fails to provide a safe independent home, subjects her to physical abuse, commands her to commit sins, or suffers from contagious harm. In such circumstances, her refusal is lawful self-defense.
لَا طَاعَةَ فِي مَعْصِيَةٍ، إِنَّمَا الطَّاعَةُ فِي الْمَعْرُوفِ (صحيح البخاري 7257)
لا تعد الزوجة ناشزا بحال إذا كان امتناعها لعذر معتبر: كعدم دفع مهرها الحال، أو امتناع الزوج عن توفير مسكن شرعي آمن، أو اعتدائه عليها بالضرب والشتم، أو أمره لها بمعصية الله؛ فـ "لا طاعة في معصية، إنما الطاعة في المعروف" (صحيح البخاري 7257)، وحينئذ تظل نفقتها واجبة عليه قضاء.
4. Restoring Harmony and Maintenance Upon Return | عودة النفقة بمجرد زوال النشوز والتصالح
Nushuz is a temporary state, not an eternal condemnation. The instant the wife abandons her defiance and resumes marital life, or when family arbitration resolves the dispute, her full legal right to maintenance resumes immediately. The Quran commands husbands: "If they obey you, seek no means against them" (4:34).
فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا (سورة النساء: 34)
النشوز وصف عارض يزول بزوال سببه؛ فمتى تراجعت الزوجة عن امتناعها وعادت إلى بيت الزوجية بسلام، عاد وجوب نفقتها وكسوتها فوراً دون تأخير؛ وحرم على الزوج مؤاخذتها أو التضييق عليها بعد الصلح، قال تعالى: {فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا}.
Scholarly Insight: Islamic marital law balances rights with obligations: guaranteeing unconditional support to a faithful spouse while temporarily withholding maintenance during active, unprovoked spousal desertion. Read more in the tafsir of Surah An-Nisa.
Frequently Asked Questions | الأسئلة الشائعة
What is the definition of Nushuz (ill-conduct) in Islamic jurisprudence?
A deliberate, unjustified refusal of core marital obligations, such as abandoning the home or refusing intimacy without medical excuse.
Does a husband have to pay financial maintenance to a wife during active Nushuz?
According to the majority of scholars, maintenance (Nafaqah) is suspended during the period of persistent, unprovoked defiance.
Is a woman considered Nashiz if she leaves because of domestic abuse?
No, leaving an abusive or unsafe home is a lawful act of self-protection and does not constitute Nushuz.
When is a wife's financial maintenance restored after Nushuz?
Immediately upon reconciliation and resumption of normal marital life.
Prepared by Eng. Ghada Homad, founder of IslamFAQ, researched and written in consultation with qualified scholars, reviewed by Professor Khaled Jassem Al-Houli, Associate Professor of Comparative Jurisprudence and Islamic Politics, Faculty of Sharia and Islamic Studies, University of Kuwait. Read more about the authors and this project →