How Did the Brothers Convince Their Protective Father to Let Yusuf Go With Them?
كيف أقنع الإخوة أباهم شديد التعلق بيوسف بأن يرسله معهم؟
They told their father that they would take him out to play while they tended to their herd. They succeeded in convincing him that they would take care of him. After some hesitation, Yaqoub sent Yusuf with his brothers, and they showed their love and protection for Yusuf. “They said, ‘O our father! Why do you not trust us with Yusuf, although we truly wish him well? Send him out with us tomorrow so that he may enjoy himself and play, and we will really watch over him'” (Surah Yusuf 12:11-12).
قالوا لأبيهم إنهم يريدون أن يأخذوا يوسف معهم ليلعب بينما هم يرعون الغنم، وبعد جهد نجحوا في إقناع أبيهم، وتردد كثيرا، لكن يعقوب عليه السلام أرسل يوسف عليه السلام مع إخوته، وأظهر الإخوة حبهم وخوفهم على يوسف. قَالُوا يَا أَبَانَا مَا لَكَ لَا تَأْمَنَّا عَلَىٰ يُوسُفَ وَإِنَّا لَهُ لَنَاصِحُونَ ﴿١١﴾ أَرْسِلْهُ مَعَنَا غَدًا يَرْتَعْ وَيَلْعَبْ وَإِنَّا لَهُ لَحَافِظُونَ ﴿١٢﴾ (سورة يوسف: 11-12).
1. A Question Designed to Make Refusal Feel Unreasonable | سؤال صُمم ليجعل الرفض يبدو غير معقول
The brothers did not simply ask permission; they opened with “why do you not trust us,” a question that puts the burden of justification on their father rather than on themselves. This rhetorical framing turns a father’s legitimate caution into something he would have to defend.
لم يكتفِ الإخوة بطلب الإذن؛ بل افتتحوا بـ”ما لك لا تأمنا”، سؤال يضع عبء التبرير على أبيهم لا عليهم أنفسهم. وهذا التأطير البلاغي يحوّل حذر أب مشروعا إلى أمر عليه أن يدافع عنه.
2. A Father’s Hesitation That Was Justified | تردد أب كان له ما يبرره
The Quran preserves the detail of Yaqoub’s hesitation before agreeing: he told them it saddened him that they would take Yusuf, and that he feared a wolf would eat him while they were heedless of him (12:13). His eventual consent despite this hesitation is not presented as naivety but as a father who voiced his concern before allowing Yusuf to go. What the brothers told him when they came back is covered in What Did the Brothers Tell Their Father When They Returned Without Yusuf?
يحفظ القرآن تفصيل تردد يعقوب قبل الموافقة، إذ قال إنه يحزنه أن يذهبوا بيوسف، ويخاف أن يأكله الذئب وهم عنه غافلون (يوسف: 13). ولا يُعرض قبوله في النهاية رغم هذا التردد سذاجة، بل هو أب عبّر عن قلقه قبل أن يسمح ليوسف بالذهاب.
3. Words of Protection From the Very Ones Planning Harm | كلمات حماية من نفس من يخططون للأذى
The promise “we will really watch over him” is especially striking given what the brothers had already decided, covered in What Did the Brothers Finally Decide to Do About Yusuf? Their words of reassurance were the opposite of their intentions, a detail that sharpens the story’s portrayal of premeditated deception rather than a plan formed spontaneously once Yusuf was already out with them.
وعد “وإنا له لحافظون” لافت بشكل خاص بالنظر إلى ما كان الإخوة قد قرروه بالفعل، كما تناولنا في مقال ماذا قرر الإخوة أخيرا بشأن يوسف؟ وكانت كلمات طمأنتهم عكس نواياهم تماما، تفصيل يعزز تصوير القصة لخداع مُبيّت مسبقا لا خطة تشكلت عفويا بمجرد أن أصبح يوسف معهم بالفعل.
Scholarly Insight: Al-Qurtubi, on the brothers’ proposal of play (12:12): “What is meant by play is permissible recreation and relaxation, not forbidden play which opposes truth. That is why Yaqoub did not object to their proposal of playing.” On one reading of the word for grazing, he explains: “So that he might train himself in this and grow into manhood: at one time he would graze the sheep, and at another he would play, because of his young age.” See the brothers’ account on returning without Yusuf. Read the fuller context in the tafsir of Surah Yusuf.
Frequently Asked Questions | الأسئلة الشائعة
How did the brothers convince Yaqoub to let Yusuf go with them?
They asked to take him out to play while tending their herd, insisting they only wished him well and would protect him.
Did Yaqoub agree easily?
No. The Quran records that he said it saddened him that they would take Yusuf and that he feared a wolf would eat him (12:13), before he let him go with them.
What did the brothers promise about Yusuf’s safety?
That they would watch over and protect him, a promise that directly contradicted their actual plan.
Prepared by Eng. Ghada Homad, founder of IslamFAQ, researched and written in consultation with qualified scholars, reviewed by Professor Khaled Jassem Al-Houli, Associate Professor of Comparative Jurisprudence and Islamic Politics, Faculty of Sharia and Islamic Studies, University of Kuwait. Read more about the authors and this project →